Saturday, July 18, 2009

How can I make her cumm?

Confused Lover says:

Hello Anju,
I have some theoretical knowledge about female orgasm. But I need your big advice about how to get into Climax of Female orgasm. And How to keep my GF to cooperate with me to meet climax.

I am 23M. My GF is 24. I do have sex with my GF for 3 times per month. The entire sex session would be like 6 hours per day. We complete atleast 3 full sessions per day. Some times I take 30 minutes to ejaculate.

I love to satisfy her by doing much foreplay. You know, Most of the time she feels like heaven. I slowly fingering and lick her “Gates of Heaven”. I keeps doing it like 10 minutes. She becomes more hot and she moan lound & sometimes she cry.. When I reach 12 to 15 minutes of doing this continuously.. Her body goes very tight and she laugh like a devil for 2 minutes. She laugh , laugh, laugh and stops me forcefully to do it.

I am really expecting to give her a full orgasm and let her to ejaculate. You know I try this every day we meet private. When we nearing to climax she starts laughing like a real devil and she says.. She cannt do anything in that time..

Whats the problem? Do all girls laugh like ghost when they reach climax of ejaculation?

I never seen her ejaculate

Yours Lovingly,
Confused Lover

Aunty Anjali says:

Hi Confused Lover.

I think the problem here is simply that you are confused as to what an orgasm is and what an orgasm is not!

From reading your message your girlfriend is reaching orgasm with her devilsh laugh and the fact that she pushes you away forcefully. When she does that it means her body can no longer take anymore pleasure since it has reached its climax!

When you talk about making her ejaculate you are talking about something different. What I think you are reffering to here is what is called squirting. Making larger amouts of liquid squirt from the pussy. This is not possible in all girls. You see it in the videos but its not always real and teh ones that are real is not possible with all girls.

You should be happy to have your girlfriend moan and groan like she does and she should be very happy that she has a gifted tongue man like you.

Cheers,