Vivacious says:
Hi Anjali Mam,
This is my Third post now, but i still don’t mind waiting. I know its up to u to decide whether which question should be given priority.But i have one complain that you reply similar questions like the last one “finger fuckin n AIDS” it has been asked several times and you’ve also replied most of them.If they really are your regular reader then they must know already the answer for that.
First of all thanks for being here for people like me who were hesitating to talk about their sexual as well as personal matters with somebody else. I’m really thankful to FSI blog for creating this blog an very thankful to you for answering even the silliest questions on the earth. When i got to know about FSI from a friend i didn’t know about ASK Anjali blog , here i saw you answering and helping people for their sexual & personal matters n I thought that it is the right place for me to ask my queries.
Now something about me :- I am 24 year old guy, good looking and tall. i’m in love with my girlfriend emotionally , physically and mentally. She is very cute looking, understanding and sometimes sexy when in bed . We talk a lot about sex and we’ve decided not to have sex before marriage and i respect her decision. On the Last meeting we were all alone since it was her b’day and we had drinks together ( a little more than usual) as she was staying with me that night. When we moved to bed i started kissing her n biting her , she got horny & i removed her top and sucked her nipples. We did nothing more than this before. This time i also removed her shorts and panties and she was nude in total. Then she removed my tshirt n shorts too. now this was the first time we were seeing each other like this. we both were drunk but i was a bit in my senses. She climbed on me and started rubbing her cunt against my dick in cowboy position. i was horny too and had a chance to fuck her but i didnt and decided to please her with my fingers only. when i was done i askd her to play with and suck my dick but she refused that time and we slept.
Later on after some days when i asked her bout this . She told me that she dont like having oral sex as it is very dirty. she didnt stroke my penis because she thought that I’ll cum & she wud get dirty with cum. And she told me not to ask her to do that again.
Mam i want you tell her about oral sex and cum are they really dirty?I would make her read your reply. Mam we didnt have sex but i believe we can do up to this limit and enjoy it to its heights. I love to satisfy her urge and love the way she moans (that excites me as well) & I want her to caress & please me like the way i do. Please suggest something to her. Thanks in anticipation. I think your reply will help many guys to avoid this type of conception from their girls mind. As most of the girls feel either shy or dirty to have oral sex for the first time.
Thank you once again
Regards
Vivacious
Aunty Anjali says:
Hi Vivacious,
Im a happy you have found the love of your life. I hope that it works out for both of you so you can get married and start having some sex. Until then I do like the option of just having foreplay and oral sex. Oral sex is fun and safe for the most part and very very pleasureable.
Now as for conciving your girl friend that oral sex or cum is not dirty is no easy task. Alot of girls have the image that a penis is scary and dirty tool that should only be used for making babies. Although they are more than happy to recieve all sorts of oral and finger pleasure themsleves.
Oral sex is only dirty if the guy does not wash before hand. Make sure to have a good long shower with lots of soap. Also make sure to eat lots of sweet fruit before oral sex so that your sperm tastes fruity and sweet.If you keep your self clean and trimmed there is nothing dirty about it.
As for cumm, again some girls love the taste of it and some don’t. There is nothing dirty about it. It is just natural products of the male body and the only icky thing about it is that it is slightly acidic. It is not bad for you and as long as you are STD free there are no health risks.
If you are reading this Vivacious girlfriend. Give it a try before you say you don’t like. You may find yourself addicted to giving oral pleasure.
If none of this works on your girl you could always refuse to please her and see how long she holds out now that you have shown her what pleasure really feels like.
Good Luck.
Cheers,
