Tony says:
Hi i am 26 years old and married,
i was reading all question which was asked to you, i have a problem may be you will be able to help me. when me and my wife have sex i cumm very early and she is not satisfied. i am unable to last for more than 1min and then i get excited. now we dont have sex and our relationship is disturbed. help me please.
Aunty Anjali says:
Hi Tony.
Thanks for your question, I can understand how difficult it must be for you only lasting 1 minute. The excitment issue is nothing new for men. The more excited a man is the faster he will cumm.
Since you are one of the quicker cummers you should do something about this. If you are comfortable seeing a doctor you should go and talk about medication to help you get started. Viagra or Cialis work wonders for this but are expensive and you rely on pills.
Other methods that could work for you are:
- Learn the stop and start technique during masturbation. This will help you control yourself longer over time.
- Masturbate before sex as the excitement won’t be so great and you can last much longer on rounds two or three.
- Find some desensitizing cream or condoms. Make sure to use with care or you could have some numb body parts or tongues.
This should help you along your way.
Good Luck.
Cheers,
